I've been in a serious relationship for a year and a half. I'm not satisfied with the the relationship, there's lack of sex (usually twice a month) too many fights over the same stuff (we both have a bad temper) she's too clingy and her insecurities drain all my energy, to name a few.
She has absolutley zero Friends. Her mother texts her only when she needs something (usually once every 2 months or so) and her sister never ever calls or writes. She depends on me for entertainment, love and companionship. It makes me feel trapped. Im moving away 2 hours feom her for university and she's devastated, but i feel i have to do this to get some space, to breathe. I dont want to leave her because i do love her, i dont want her to be all alone in this world. She is a hard person to be with though, sometimes she gets very mean and obnoxious without any reason at all, i kinda know why she can't keep friends. She screams at her mother and always wants to be right. Not the most pleasing person to be with. But i still love her and she doesn't deserve to be all alone, if we break up she'll have no one to even tell we've broken up. Its extemley sad. I want to live my 20s with more freedom than this, but i dont want her to suffer. What should i do?
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes you need to be cruel to be kind. And you can't put your happiness on hold for her. Until someone wakes her up she won't change her attitude which is her responsibility not yours0
Most Helpful Guy
life is too short to be unsatisfied in a relationship, if fixing it does not work, seek other relationships0