Most Helpful Guy
Okay so let me tell you whats actually going on.
He isn't interested in you anymore, he just lost feelings. The work is just an excuse. He probably has his eyes on someone else.
It could have been worse he could've cheated.
Right at this moment you're so in love with him that other men seem insignificant
but i can assure one day another man will just come into walk into your life and make you feel all these things again that you felt with your.
Or maybe you actually really lost the best man you could've ever had.
Most Helpful Girl
1. There's no way anyone can know what's on somebody's mind unless you ask them. I suggest the first thing you should consider is asking him the exact reason for the break up.
2. Maybe he wanted to focus more on his career.
3. It may not have been so sudden. People in general can be deceiving and he may have not felt the same for you the entire time or for some period of time. I know plenty of people who pretended. If they are good at it you cannot know, especially if you love them.."rose colored glasses as they say".
I really don't want to be a pessimist here, but if you can't check with him the reason you should consider all possibilities not just the ones that may make you think it was your fault.
Everyone may say this, but moving on really is the best thing to do. If you can get closure, even better.