I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, I love him with my whole heart. but all we do is agure. I get senstive because he's not the type to give compliments he tears you down instead and then tears you down some more if he sees you crying. we just got into a fight and instead of listening about how I feel he shuts down and won't hear it. and now he's not talking to me. Is this normal, something I should just accepted that guys just ignore their girlfriends. I just feel like he doesn't care, he never Chase's me.