I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, I love him with my whole heart. but all we do is agure. I get senstive because he's not the type to give compliments he tears you down instead and then tears you down some more if he sees you crying. we just got into a fight and instead of listening about how I feel he shuts down and won't hear it. and now he's not talking to me. Is this normal, something I should just accepted that guys just ignore their girlfriends. I just feel like he doesn't care, he never Chase's me.
Is this apart of modern realtionships should I accept this, or is it okay that I'm hurt?
What Guys Said 8
no this is not right, a relationship is about two people becoming one not one person with a loyal side kick, thats what dogs are for (pet dogs lol). i am not great with the compliments but i do try and listen and change when my wife asks or talks. as for teh crying i think most guys find that hard to deal with as we are taught to not cry and get up and get on with it, its probably something to do with showing your emotions, which ladys do and guys dont.0
Its time to break up. You know it and probably feel it. Relationships can't last with constant fighting and when your dating a boy and not a man who ignores you after you voicing your concerns.1
Its not normal. Accept it only if you want to. One last thing to do.. tell you're tired of being treated like this and show him the door.1
No real man would act like that. a real man would love and care for his woman. he should treat her right and be the best that he can be for her.1
No, don't accept this. Have a serious talk with him about it or break up and find a good man.1
He is not worth to you. a man a genuine man keep the value of his partner emotions. if he evoke you to cry more so i dont think he is still like you.0
maybe he's worried by something he's not telling you about?0
What Girls Said 2
It seems really toxic and the start of an abusive relationship, if you don't get out now you'll be stuck taking all of his shit because you want to please him and gain his approval.0
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