I married my bestfriend of almost 7yr. I thought he was my one. because I thought he wouldn't change. I found out he has been lying and doing things behind my back.
do you think this was a mistake or am I over thinking stuff. I don't know him at all anymore..
- yesVote A
- noVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think it's a mistake for anyone to marry their best friend. You may now have regrets, but you made a good decision based on what you believed to be true, and being friends for that many years you had a fair amount to go by. Your decision wasn't a poor one. I don't know what the source of your issues are in the relationship. My best advice if you decide you want to try and make it work, is to look for anything that might be your fault and do what you can to make up for it. Most people aren't willing to admit when they're wrong, but if someone else admits it they're far more willing to admit their own faults and even to try and make up for them. I don't know if you're religious or not, but I'd also highly recommend praying for him. I'll be praying for you, friend.1
Most Helpful Girl
It is not how long u know someone, it seems u didn't met his real self till now1