Bearing in mind that I have found out about an affair two years ago right after giving birth to my second child.
And bearing in mind this search dates back to a week I travelled with my girlfriends.
Would you consider such searches as indicators of anything serious?
Most Helpful Guy
With the past affair in mind and the fact that the searches were from when you were out of town, 100% yes unfortunately. Talk to the asshole and let him explain. If he doesn't have an explanation that is acceptable (99.9% he won't) then you should move on. You should respect yourself because he sure as hell doesn't.4
Most Helpful Girl
That is him starting to already cheat or at least has it on his mind. It is definitely huge red flag. Considering he cheated already and he is already back at trying it again tells me you need to get out now. This is toxic and messed up. He has no respect for you and your kids. If he loved you and your kids, he wouldn't be screwing up like this again.2
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