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The woman isn't the problem. The fact your husband won't respect boundaries and your feelings on the matter is. You need to have a calm and rational discussion on why this bothers you, you can't MAKE him stop. He has to want to
talk to him about it.
I tried he don't want to hear what I got to say
well that's a red flag. if he doesn't listen to his wife's concerns then how can you ever communicate? communication is the most important thing in a relationship.
I know me and him really need to talk
if you can't talk then I'm afraid that's the beginning of the end.
ill try an see where I go from there
If he has respect for you, he would stop. As simple as that. Nobody HAS to respond to a text. If he does so, despite you asking him not to, then clearly he has little respect for you and priorities her above you.
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