My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 years, and I got pregnant with my son when I was 21. My boyfriend made a snarky comment saying I was less desirable while being pregnant because I was "bigger". Then when my girl came along, he told me that I need to "fix" my stretch marks otherwise he would leave me for another girl. Do you find your partner less desirable when they're pregnant? Should I break it off with him?
Most Helpful Guy
I would think that's a normal reaction at 21 when a young couple that isn't even really in love or ready to have a child actually having a child...
I guess it's not obvious to you guys...
either way... at this point what does it matter.. it's been 4 years since the first comment and 3 years for the other comment... now you're 25
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, break it off with him. That's terrible. Stretch marks coming from having a child is especially no reason to be ashamed and him making you feel this way is so wrong. I'm lucky because my husband is really attracted to pregnant women so when I get pregnant it will really turn him on and he understands all of the less desirable things it comes with which he is perfectly okay with. Also, stretch marks are not fixable. They are preventable during pregnancy if you use creams to make them seem less pronounced but you can't actually get rid of them. He's an asshole, you brought his baby into this world and he has to be rude about stretch marks? Unbelievable! You deserve better.1