I feel like I'm dating a debt collector he makes financial decisions without me. I feel like what I do goes under appreciated. I feel what I do financially isn't appreciated. He'I'm always the one cleaning. I feel more like a roommate. You know most of my stuff is still packed up or in a drawer. I literally have barely hung anything up. This morning he just jumps up and asks you ready to wash clothes. I knew we were going today but damn I didn't know you wanted to go as soon as you hopped your ass out of bed. s always angry about something. We're not healthy for each other anymore because now I'm realizing this isn't how I want the rest of my life to be, and maybe he's like that cause I'm not the one for him?