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my first love was kind of a joke but i actually was completely in love with that person. i imagined marrying that person, would have done just about anything for that person. i am over him though. he broke my heart and kinda just showed me that love is childish. i am forever jaded after him & really i just see relationships for what they are now. if i'm dating someone, there is a chance for more but i would rather not get my hopes up anymore or believe in some fairytale.
have u ever wished being able of gettinf back with him?
Of course. But I see things for what they are. He is just a human. For my first love I put him on a pedestal and refused to see wrong in him. I dont do that anymore with people
I don't know true love differs from love but I've gotten over all my relationships. The first one is the hardest because it's a new feeling but it gets easier with more in the future.
have you ever wanted to have a future with any of your past partners?
No I've never really gotten over it and it's been 24 years since I last saw her in 25 and a half years since she dumped me.
oh god do you think she still loves you too?
Most definitely not. She married someone else. She probably doesn't even remember what happened 27 years ago tonight.
I'm really sorry. I hope you'll find someone that'll make you forget her. It's never too late
I am married to someone else and have been for 16 years. However it's not the same. I never really got over the other one and never will.
do you actually love you wife?
Yes but not the same way. Honey I answered your question. Larger lesson to be learned is that you don't get over a real true love.
i m sorry i got curious thank you for your help
No it's okay I'm sorry if I came across as snippy. I am going to miss the eclipse tomorrow even though I live in the zone of totality. Seeing a total solar eclipse is something that I wanted to do my entire life and because of my wife's $20,000 a year horse habit I can't do it because I have to work 1200 miles away from home to pay for it all. So I tell her to enjoy it because she's unemployed and has the time to be at home to watch it but she doesn't give a rat's ass. Meanwhile I have to think about 27 years ago tonight falling in love with a girl that I knew I wanted to marry and she wants nothing to do with me now and I knew that was going to be the case 24 years ago this time when I was living in Los Angeles and came to visit her in Maine. I don't like being pissed on by God.
That said, I need to give you a better understanding. Suppose you are a great soccer player who kicks with their right leg. One day, some drunk driver gets into an accident with you and they have to amputate your right leg. It doesn't matter if you get a prosthetic leg, you don't have your leg. You will never be the person that you were. You won't be the great soccer player anymore adored by millions. And there's no escaping being reminded of that every single day when you have to look down and put on your prosthetic leg every morning.Well that's what happened to me except that the difference between me and the soccer player is that everyone can see that the soccer player lost his leg. You and others can't see what was amputated from me which was pretty much my entire soul.
why not do something that makes you happy and miss work to watch the eclipse. Let your wife how much you want to do that
You don't understand. Where I am, there is a partial eclipse. Yeah, I will "experience" it, but it's not the same as if I traveled home like I originally planned to. There, my house is almost on the centerline of totality.
I regret the moment I knew I wasn't gonna get back with her after the stupid decision i took... few years later and I'm still single but I think I'm over her to the point I wanna find someone else now
did she love you too?
You don't get over true love its always there you might move in with your love but you'll always love that person whether its romantically or not
indeed. but if this love will always be present how is it logical that , how do i say it , there's no solution , there's no going back to your partner
I have an ex we were together since we were 15 and honestly we broke up last year December I love him but I don't like him rn and I can move on with my life
don t you wish you could get back with him?
Yes to a point
so how can you actually move on with your love life if u still have some small hopes?and why'd your relationship end?
Honestly I don't have small hope we could get back together because we are now friends
But he doesn't he me any hope and the reason for the brake up isn't something that's usual
i see where you're coming from. doesn't it hurt you to be friends with him?
No it doesn't I wouldn't mind if he finds the perfect girl for him some day I just want him to be happy even though he isn't with me
wow. that's something i would never feel okay with even if i really loved the person
Because that's what you feel when you truly love someone
well that's truei would love to see my partner happy even it was with someone elseBut i could never be cotent since i've always hoped to be the person he'll be happy with
You could never be what? c
content* as in happy
When you love someone there happiness becomes your happiness you even share pain with that Pearson
If you don't get what I'm saying listen to " Demi lavato - Stone cold " And you'd get a better understanding
will do thank you for sharing your experience
You won’t for a while as they became apart of your self identity. Once you split that identity is ruined.
so unless the partners get back together there is no way of escaping that love?
Your Love will disappear eventually.
True love? That's a myth
never experienced it?
I've been in love but there's no such thing as true love
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