Found out my fiance cheated on me 3 weeks before our wedding. From what i hear The girl he cheated with he has been trying to smash years now which makes me believe it may be more than just screwing her. A part of me believes he had every intention of continuing the affair with her once we were married. I don't understand why men do this? Why risk it all.. he's already sewed his wild oats before this and he has changed so why now? Please help me understand guys?
Most Helpful Guy
The bottom line is simple. He doesn't love you. Love is loyal. It isn't "guys" it's "some guys" and the minority at that. He will never love or respect you1
Most Helpful Girl
Probably just as he knew the wedding was soon he got a last minute cold feet0