I am getting a lot of disappointment from my sister and my mother i know they love me but sometimes i feel that they lack the way of showing affection and love they say a lot of things that hurt my mind and heart in a way that it can't be healed is love so hard to find when will i find someone that will love me how do i kill this feeling of disappointment of myself and human life how do i do it i dont know feeling very low right now cried for an hour but the pain is still there how do i recover from that?
Most Helpful Girl
The thing is that these things take time. I know exactly how you feel and I get tonnes of crap from not just my family but everyone around me since they have such high expectations of me and want me to do well in the future. Suicide isn't a option and it should never be.
For me what's helped is taking long walk and doing sport (loads of it) and trying to accept the fact that I am who I am and that it doesn't matter what anyone else says. In life we are born alone in this world and we die alone. I know how it is to not get affection from the people closest to you and it does hurt but in time it heals or like me you get used to the pain and live with it. You can't do anything about it. My biggest lesson in life for me was that I live for myself and not for the people around me and that I'm the only person that can make myself happy because I'm the only one in charge of how I feel, I can either let the people affect me or not.
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Most Helpful Guy
You take a deep breath and keep going. You tell yourself that you are strong enough to make it through this, because you are. You tell yourself that there is light at the end of the tunnel, even when you can't see it, because there is.1