Fast forward to now, yesterday I basically said it's over because she actually has sworn/name-called at me more than FIVE TIMES ( I have not sworn once at her after she told me to stop). I told her more than three times previously that it is unfair for her to call me names but not there another way round and I won't stand to be DISRESPECTED like that ever again. Every time I told her that she keeps saying "sorry I won't do it again, I promise blah blah blah".
After the breakup text, she replied with sorry I didn't realize it was that serious to you and realized it too late and give us another chance blah blah blah tbh her apology did seem sincere to me.
However, I'm not sure if I'm overreacting because I would let my previous exs-call me names and id call them names because I always thought it was jokes and laughter, and personally was never a problem in my previous relationship. I am so angry at what makes her think that she can swear at me when she is the one who said no swearing and also she does not take my inquiries seriously because if she had then she would've stopped immediately hence showing she does not care about how I feel.
Give me some suggestions people, should I take her back or not?
- Give her chance
- Dont give her chance