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It really depends but you can't keep waiting around for him, keep busy and live your life if you two are meant to be you will happen again.
Depends on exactly what he needs to "sort out in his head"
What do you mean by "The fact that his ex broken up hos family,"?
Meaning she walked out on him and took his daughter away from him. I know the fact he can't see his daughter every day is breaking his heart
Oh, I thought you were saying he's focused on his exes broken up hoe family. That would mean his priorities are messed up. He should get the courts involved. A father should have every right to be in his boss's life unless he's ill suited to be. Is that why he's taking time, to work on getting his child back?
You're not understanding. He gets to see his daughter just not every day like he used to. He said he needs time alone to get his head back on track and he doesn't want to continue with this further whilst he's being self destructive or hurt me more than he already has done
Then you need to respect that and step back from the relationship and focus your efforts on your own life. Take this time for you, while he takes this time for him. Whether the relationship survivors or not, at lest you'll have benefitted your life in some way.
all depends on how he feels. if he still loves you, he'd still message you.
I know he still loves me and he told me he did when he ended things, I just don't know how long it's going to be. It's only been two days but I already miss him like crazy
Hmm, I know advice to give him, but I don't know what to give you exact. so I'll just say what would work for him. Just message them when it's been close to a week. like 5-7 days after and check on him. talk to him. you know, show you still care and maybe it will work out. honestly taking breaks isn't the best. when people are a bit worn out, you don't need to break up or constantly message each other. it's important to give everyone their space
I would say it depends. How long have you two been together?
He will, men have tough battles.
what kind of things?
The fact that his ex broken up hos family, and stuff to do with his dad. There's nothing I've done we've never had any issues
in my opinion you need to help him because you guys are now together, even if he asks for space you should think of something that might help him. Dealing with personal problems alone with a distanced partner is good, but not always.
I've tried helping him but he says he needs to deal with this in his own as he doesn't want to continue whilst he's being so self destructive. I've respected his wishes and I'm just hoping he gets in touch soon
As I said dealing with personal problems alone with a distanced partner is good, but not always.
Then how long should I leave it before I reach out to him?
since you respected his wishes wait until he finish what he started.
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