i got on my fiances facebook and saw that he had messaged his ex and told her that he missed her and they should go out sometime, we are living together, and at the time of this message I was 5 months pregnant with his child, should I say anything? or just let it go?
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I've been in a similar situation with a very old ex about four years ago .. He is the father to my 3 year old. We lived with each other when my son was 1 and I saw he left his computer on and his face book page up I went to inbox and saw he was telling his ex that he missed his lover and how he wanted to fly her down. I was pretty upset and hurt yet I confronted him in a calm way. For I didn't want to escalate the situation especially around my child. Yet, realize that a guy who loves you and wants you wouldn't ever turn around behind your back and do what he did. For he disrespected you and shows that if he is capable of placing his relationship in a complicated situation like that and can keep that from you what else is he capable of. My ex has been long gone for I came to find he cheated three times that won't happen to you. But don't forget about something like that.. For even though you love him.. You should love yourself more aide you deserve not to have him hide things like that from you:)
Not sure if you had the baby yet, but your baby deserves for his mom to be happy and if he continue to message people such an ex imagine the hurt and frustration it will cause you , for your children sense your emotions. ...
But I would talk to him ask him.. If he lies then how can you continue building a solid relationship. Communication. Trust and respect are essential for a healthy relationship. I wish you luck.. And just be happy no matter what for you have that baby and no guy is worth putting you through anguish .0