What did you do after break up? Go no contact? If yes, what were you going through dealing with the break up? Did you get over it right away? Let's say she is your first real love, your first sexual experience or the best you ever had? You had good memories but also had bad. But you had to walk away from her to protect yourself because of arguments and she has a lot of stress going on with her and she is taking it out on you and herself. How do you deal with her when she reaches out? Do you cut her off? Or do you act nice? Do you hook up with another girl or girls? How will she know you over her if you claimed you did love her very much in your relationship? You guys had a tight relationship, best friends/lovers at the same time.