Most Helpful Guy
Is that a typo 15 year break? If not after all that time did you really expect a stand up husband to live with happily ever after? Don't misread what I'm saying as not feeling bad for you, you sound like a fantastic person that any real man would love to have. I'm looking at it like if you really felt the way you say then what's the point of sending him a text, to hell with that POS, he doesn't deserve you. If you send that text and he sends one back begging your forgiveness then what? You'll give it another try because you want so desperately for it to work, you put your heart out there again to be stepped on. You need to heal from that marriage not keep it going. Good luck.
Most Helpful Girl
never ever ever ever pay a man's way. if a man asks a girlfriend for money then he is using you. he's a man and should act like one. women who pay for mens dates and bills are always the one that end up used and looking foolish in the end. im sorry this happened, but you must learn from it