Most Helpful Girl
When you met someone especially a female. Her past is her past. Its very immature and childish to hold how many people she has slept with over her head. When the two of you meet, its on a clean slate. All your doing is bringing up negative energy into the relationship and it will not start off on a clean slate with that type of attitude and thinking.
Most Helpful Guy
How many is too many because there are those who do nit believe in sex before marriage and those that do not care how many the other person has been before. What matters is if they are clean or not. Guys can be the same way to. Maybe they will change at some point or maybe they won't.