but then since i was suspicious i picked up the phone so i could listen to the call 2 other times and she's definitely cheating...
I don't want my parents to split up and I don't want to interfere with their lives but I can't just sit back and watch my dad get cheated on!!!
Also I can't even look at my mother in the eye anymore. I have so much hatred for her now
Most Helpful Guy
how old are you really at this point?
asking because if you are over 18 you should be old enough to understand that this is not going to work on the long term and the only one that will suffer along the way will be you. Why? Because you know and you will blame yourself and you will see your dad being fooled and coming home to his "loyal" wife while you know what's going on. And you will take the blame.
This will ruin you more than doing something and seeing your parents split... amicably maybe.
Just tell your father "dad, I love you and I wouldn't say things to hurt you, but I believe it is time to make a change in your life as I believe this is no longer a family as it is supposed to be" ...
That's what I'd say...
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly you have to talk with your mother first, its best- you never know your dad may know and just doesn't want to confront your mother. Either way I would suggest do as little damage as possible and let them work it out like the adults they are. It has no reflection of you.