This guy and I had been dating exclusively for little over a month. The first time we had sex was one week ago and he called me by his ex's name. He says he only did that because ever since he broke up with her he hadn't reached that level of physical and emotional intimacy with anyone else. Ok fair enough, I'm not mad anymore, things are back to normal.
2 days later though he starts acting weird. Stops asking to meet up, stops trying to make conversation, at this point I'm the only one making an effort. If I didn't text him he would spend the entire day without talking to me.
Last night I told him I wasn't happy about that and he flat out ignored me. We attended the same party, I'm pretty positive he saw me there multiple times and pretended he didn't know me. I dumped him via text this morning.
- Yes, you were rightVote A
- No, you shouldn't have dumped himVote B
Most Helpful Guy
You did the right thing.
He did wrong tho, if he didn't wanna be with you he could have told you. Avoid his problems, try to move on if possible.0
Most Helpful Girl
Look I'm against dumping people despite what they may have done to me there's another way to be more harsh and mature which is to be direct and frank. And what I mean by this is to talk with u're boyfriend and tell him what's bothering u and then u can see what he wants from his convo so u can say that u wanna break up and so... u can be free again and do whatever u want without dumping and staying loyal to urself before anything cz you're the one who chose to be his girlfriend !1