Do I wait it out and be there for him or do I stick in the knife and do it now?
I've wanted to break up with him for a while. We don't share the same ideals when it comes to the future and our relationship isn't... going anywhere.
Recently he's found out his pregnant sister is really sick and he's taken on the responsibility of looking after his family with stress from moving and his work Tooo.
I feel horrible about breaking up with him now. I want to be there for him because he really is a good guy, but I don't want to lead him on..
Most Helpful Guy
If you don't break up with him now he'll think you're the only person who is always there for him and will make it harder for you to break up, if you do break up with him now he'll feel like you kicked him while he was down and will probably never forget this. It's a tough choice but the outcomes I said are not certain.
If you think he is a good guy and you still want to stick by him explain it to him and tell him the truth about why you want to breakup, your reasons seem reasonable so he might get over it fast.0
Most Helpful Girl
You should definitely wait it out. I don't think he is capable of handling a break up in addition to all that he is already going through. If you've always been a good girlfriend then why spoil that image now?
He'll just think you were a bitch in the end who dumped him during his rough time.
You should have a nice and clean break up
when the time is right. Also, you said it yourself that you want to be there for him and that he's a good guy. You obviously think he's worth the wait, so do what your heart tells you to.0