I was beaten as a child by my father, beaten up by my ex husband and now the man I love is on drugs and although he's not physically hurting me he's treating me like dirt.
Most Helpful Guy
You are subconsciously drawn to abusive men, based on your history of parental abuse. Break the cycle.. dump the abuser and run with a better crowd of people and find a "nice" guy.4
Most Helpful Girl
I'm not at all blaming you, but unfortunately abuse victims tend to unintentionally seek out abusers. You tend to be more accepting because you're adjusted to it. If you don't accept the behaviour, the less you will see it.2