Why do you think some people can move on quickly from a break-up whereas other people cannot?
what do you think the reasons are?
Most Helpful Girl
I move on easily, very easily. I fall hardly and kinda easily too. But my friends say I can forget a person in a day. At some point it is true.
I think no one is special in the world, special enough to make it hard to move on.
I make the person special with my feelings and once he doesn't value it or I guess there's no point to continue our thing. I just go. It's always me who ends things. I have a sense mile away, I can know what he feels weeks or months ago he knows.
And I know that once in a relationship the man I'll love will be one of the luckiest and happiest one. So I definitely know that he loses more than I do. It makes things easier.
I believe that everything what I felt was worth it. I am even glad he helped me experience those sparkling feelings I had to him. I am happy our thing happened and happy it ended the way it ended because that's what makes a story I'll remember when old and say "fuck yeah I lived and loved".
World is full with potential lovers, you can love all of them once they fit your criteria. Even if compatible guy was only one in a million, no problem, here are 7 milliard people in the world. He was special, he was. There will be another one and most definitely my love will be stronger than before.
Every next one is better than last one. They all help me learn and grow and feel, no matter, sad or happy. They make me feel alive. That's it, my philosophy.
If I move on It doesn't mean I forget, I remember them and appreciate them for being there for me back then but life goes on and so am I.2
Most Helpful Guy
Some people seem to go through life with a partial disconnect from their feelings. Whatever happens, their emotional responses are blunted and don;t seem to affect them very much.
Others move forward as a way of avoiding confronting all of their feelings at once. Then, they process those feelings in bits and pieces over time. This is how I handle a break up. When I got divorced 2½ years ago, I was dating before my divorce became final. I still have some sadness about the divorce but it is much better than it was 2½ years ago.2