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Everybody are different. For me, No. I want to marry a girl because i love her. Because my emotions are attached to her. Because i want to spend a lifetime with her and that time is not entirely related to bed. Life and love does not evolve around sex for me. I'm not trying to hire a prostitute nor looking to shop a walking sex toy. I want a lady. I want to share my happiness and sadness with someone not my bed. Bed is never a goal. Sex is never a priority. When love is true, sex will be amazing automatically. That's called an intimacy supported by love. I want a girl for who she is as a person, for her personality and character, not for her sexual experience and performance. However she'd be, whatever she does, i'd love her whatsoever and every touch would feel like paradise. Because it's my favorite woman. she is not my sex performer, she's a normal human being and my lover. I'd never measure her by body size and sex performances. My girl's value is much more than that. Good Luck.
If yes or no are your only options, you'll get two opposing opinions as it really differs from person to person. For me personally, I don't find it necessary or unneseccary, though I have never been in a relationship where the guy I was waiting wanted to hold off on things. Sex to me is something that I share with a significant other whom I desire to share an intimate connection with because I truly love them during the time I'm with them... may he end up being my hubby or not, I live and love in the "now" is how I view things.
I can't speak for everybody but there are a few stuff that i consider extremely important to experience with your loved one before marriage. Lots of sex is definitely one of them. And by lots, i mean LOTS of it!
No. in my opinion it makes it more special if you hold out for the wedding night.
It depends, I knew i'd be sexual before I even had sex. Some people just need a companion and will be better off with horrible sex anyway. So it depends on your needs.
My wife was a virgin. I think that's the right way. I don't want to know that men touched her before me. It creates memories too. It's gross. Christianity and Islam are very strict about that. Wonder why.
Were you virgin as well?
Of course not. Men need to have experience! Plus we aren't technically virgins since we don't have hymens.
Then your argument is invalid. We are not different than women. And dont refer to religion as a poor way of trying to hide your insecurities. You say you dont want to picture other guys fking her. Its gross? What about her? What about you sticking your dick into other women? isn't that gross for her? Or are you not equal? Many women have loose hymens or none at all. So they can fk as there are also technically not virgins like us? No offence but seems like you're stuck 50 years back.
Yes, we're different, you donkey. We have pricks, women have holes. We use logic, they use emotion. They can give birth, we can't have babies. And relax, my woman is a Muslim. They don't think like you think they do think. They're old fashioned but that's what I love about them. While I'm having fun with her, you go wonder how many studs are ready to pump your girl full of cum.
Like i said. 50 years back.
About the 50 years back I can roast you right away. While you drive your Prius, do you know what I own? A 1995 Mercedes-Benz G-Wagen, a Rolls-Royce from 1982 and an old Renault. If your new toy car lives for more than 10 years, I'll personally buy you some milk. Old is not always bad but media has turned yor head into a melon full with steropore!
That's called consumerism and pushing you to buy more of the new junk.
Again more invalid examples, assumptions and arguments totally out of subject. Seriously. Just admit you dont want an experienced girl because you're insecure and afraid or being compared to her previous lovers. Its that simple.
No it is not. If you wait until marriage, then the buildup of sexual frustration makes you kinkier.
God says no so that's the one answer you need, no one is above God.
i would not do it. but i think yes...its bad to have it before marriage though!
but if it happens , then it should be single
No but it is something that I want to have a deep connection with a girl before we sleep together. I'm not just looking for hit it and quit it sex
The number two reason for divorce is sexual incompatibility.Why in the world risk it.
Some say yes. Some no. Depends
Yes. You should know and be sexually compatible with your partner before marriage. You can't know if you done it before marriage.
No. I plan on waiting until marriage myself
I wouldn't marry without premarital sex.
Whatever makes them comfortable
no don't agree
I don't think so
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