i wanted to break up because it seemed like he doesn't love me. almost all our dates are sexual and he doesn't seem like he is trying to make me happy. so i told him i want to break up. he was like "no more sexy time with pearlyn? :(" "quickie once in a while?" i said no and he said "why? it's okay to have sex with your ex. you enjoy it anyways." i feel really offended because at the moment of our break up, all he thinks about is sex? and i don't think i can ever remain as friends and have sex with someone i loved. does this mean he never loved me?
- Yes, he did not love you and was only after sexVote A
- No, he might have loved youVote B
- ResultsVote C
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Not necessarily, but in this case, it sounds like you were just more of a fwbs to him (and he wants that to continue). But if he did love you, it could be his way of holding onto you in some way still? But doesn't sound like it. But my question to you, did you talk to him about how you felt unloved before you just ended the relationship? Don't expect him to know how you feel if you don't tell him and talk about it.0
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