Most Helpful Guy
Most people think that a quick short and final goodbye is the best thing. Its not.
The best breakup possible was when she alowed me to ask questions and say things... thats what my personality craves I guess. I'm ok with truth and reality IF AND WHEN I understand it.
First - say to him that you want to break up and that its best if its clean cut and this is the last message ever.
He'll write back. For sure.
From here on its his doing... he's prolonging it.
Answer his questions help him understand.
And showing that it hurts you to do this too will be a great consolation.
He will think you're stupid for not finding the way at first. I did anyways. Buuut my girlfriend was fundamentally different. Guided by emotions. Decision making with emotions. The explination was not a good one actually. But it showed me how she truly "thinks". I saw that breakup was indeed in order. That we really ARE incompatible.
I still spilled 3-5 tears but thats the best breakup ever ;)
Most Helpful Girl
Tell him you dont feel that way. You thought you might and you wanted to explore that possibility but you obviously dont. You don't want to keep things going because then he will get more attatched. And you dont want to lead him on.