Now she is always texting me like she wants to come back but when i ask her for meet up she refuses. She says that she should not do that now. But she is constantly texting me and asking for my photos etc.
I am confused what the hell is going on
It's not rude of you to not want to talk to her.. see it this way that person did like you but at the end of the day married someone else.. since it didn't work out you came back to the picture a Plan B.. my ex did the same thing to me and tried talking to me.. but I realized why would I want to end up with a person who saw me as a plan B.. I told him "I shldve been your first choice not 2nd" he now realizes his mistakes but it's too late. So for you even if the oerson keep asking for photos of you.. leave it as is.. if you still care about that person and want to take a risk that person needs to be willing to prove to you they have changed.. but what if down the road that person decides they miss their old ex you will be plan B again
Yeah i like your comment i was her fucking plan B.
I dont want her back like i used to be once but i just want to remain sober
Yes enjoy life be sober.. during my time I never thought I could fully get over my ex but down the road I met the guy I've now been with for 5.5yrs and we cldnt be happier. He treats me like a queen he does a lot for me and is so sweet to me. So let this now be an experience for her... we are unsure of the future but for now just enjoy the season you are in.. life is full of surprises.. so enjoy the ride
Yeah a no for now... until they get their stuff together IF anything.. show her you are stronger than that.. you wnt run back along because than that person will know they can do whatever they want to you and you will come running back
Then use that memory of her leaving you as a tool to leave her for good and do it for yourself. Don't be someone's back up plan and entertainment.
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