Thanks for the advice
What's an IDPA?
Also do you know what types of guns might be best for smaller women or any websites that might be helpful?
Google IDPA. You might also go to youtube and search "Range Tme Erika"I suggest a Smith & Wesson Shield. If you plan to carry it in your purse, make sure you get the one with the safety.
(that word is TIME, sorry I missed the i)
Go to any gun store (Cabella's or Bass Pro Shop for example) and someone will be happy to help you without being pushy.
Thanks for your tips
It's extremely stressful and I can feel it taking a toll on me as I am starting to feel really paranoid. It's a little depressing for me.
Did you get restraining order? Oooo a dog and whistle too!! A bat or baton maybe? Let me know if he is arrested or locked up or if you wanna share woes, I'm afraid for ya 😢
I tried to get a restraining order on him once but the people I spoke with said I'd have to take him to court? Like wtf? And prove that it's been happening, it's tough to do when most of the time it is unexpected like when I drive home from work or I am walking somewhere, or with a friend. It's completely random but it is him. And it is stressful.
Thanks for your concern I'm not sure what to do tbh
It reminds me of the movie "enough" where the woman prepare herself for a fight against her abusive husband when system is against her but hopefully you can beat this. Maybe you should hire someone or get a friend to get evidence of him stalking you by stalking him, what is it called? Ergh
Yeah I thought about maybe getting a dash cam for my car? Not sure how much it will help
That's good!! Draw up a plan to prepare for his presence so you can capture him when he tries to surprise you and be ready on defence while on cam if he do show up
Yes the last time I took a walk by myself I had my phone out and I was very aware of the surroundings and I didn't see him but I thought maybe even just having the camera out was helping me to like ward him off or something.
Hm body cam too?
Maybe that would look kind of weird but might be a good idea?
Lol looking weird is not your biggest concern, your safety is and not like it's prettied up unless you styled it but does it really matter, as long it's not too obvious hahaha. I hope you get this creep soon, wish you can get advice from cops and lawyers like self defense details and the court process... is there a way?
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Yes I have told them not to stalk me numerous times.
Thus I would file a TRO or injunction in court if this bothers you so. If that dont work. I know a few 'Counselors' who are effective at attitude adjustments.
Ugh, I wish.
I've been seriously considering this, but it makes me a little nervous that and I'm unsure which guns would work best for me
A quick internet search will tell you that. Or perhaps better yet the attendant behind the counter at your local gun store.
I tried it's in the comments I will call them again though
Then again you could just be paranoid off the coco.
Sounds like you enjoy gas lighting women
And you're probably a woman beater and stalker
Nah, I just pay them to leave.
I deal with stripper friends.
They've had some stalkers though. Like this one girl I use to deal with named Alyssa from the Men's Club in Dallas. She was real head case though so you can never tell.
And she stayed paranoid from Meth and Coco. But she was a California girl and hot as fish grease so I didn't matter.
And let me tell'ya Dallas Texas ain't Cali. Neither is Irving.
That girl "blew" some life into me more than once. She was a breathe of fresh air.
But sorry to hear about your issue. I'm sure it's just echoes from the past. I wouldn't worry about it too much.