I've been on three really nice dates with this one guy and he even made me dinner once. He then asked if I want to date him after we hung out a second time and on the third one, he asked again if we are more than friends. He is not good at texting because of his childhood (as you know, girls loooove to communicate all day but he said he's never been good at it because he's never had that kind of relationship with his family or other people). I just broke up with another guy when I started hanging out with him. He said he trusts me and understood that I don't easily trust people because I have been cheated on before.
Can guys really like someone that fast? I guess what I'm trying to figure out is if a guy can be really that serious after knowing someone for just a short time.
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Yes, guys can get that serious.
Here's the thing though, for guys "serious" does not necessitate feelings right away. Sometimes it does, but most of the time it does not.
When we get into a relationship, it's because we get along with the person, we do have a level of trust (not complete), and we feel there is potential for the relationship to build.
As I've learned, when girls enter into a relationship, it's because they feel a strong emotional attachment and know that the relationship has potential.
Keep that in mind as you move forward. It doesn't mean he's going to be different, he doesn't mean he's going to plan his moves. Guys let the elements of a relationship build, and they dedicate themselves to the process.1