I have been dating this guy for about 6 months now & I realize that I don't have feelings for him. I can't see him as my husband, as the husband of my children, or even meeting my family & hanging out w/friends. He's a nice guy & treats me great but there are so many small things that annoy me about him & that make me realize I can never truly be with him. I don't want to lead him on any longer & want to break up but I'm scared on how to do it. I really don't want to hurt him and am not sure what I should say.
There is this other guy at work who I have a major crush on, and although nothing might ever happen, the fact that I can feel this way for someone & I never have for my current boyfriend is a sign that I need to move on.
I don't think he see's it coming. What is the best way to break it to him & how should I explain it?!
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There is no easy way...he will be crushed severely that's what a break-up is all about to begin with. From one point you make it seem as if he's a really great guy because you said that he's nice, and treats you good...i mean todays girls would only dream to have a guy like that compare to the actual jerk they have instead. And from another point you make it seem as if he's good...but ummm not good enough because there's some annoying things that you supposely don't like about him? But to make matters worse you admitted to saying that there's this guy at work that you happen to have a crushed on and all of a sudden you feel something that you would never ever feel for with your current boyfriend. It sounds very immature and weird with what your doing, are about to do...and will do with this guys heart, but at the end its all up to you to do what's best for you. Remember though it looks like he's done nothing wrong...but if you want to break his heart for nothing than go ahead. Remember nice guys like these don't really come around in a bunch...its only the jerks who you think are good that come in a whole bunch. In life people learn and but others learn the hard way, but like I said its all on you just be cautious with what your about to do good luck ms.0