The relationship was going well one day he called me to say that he wants to break up and i should move on with my life i know that he had a lot of problems this period of his life but its was though for me after 8 months of break up he called me to say that he regret his decision he offered me a job and even his appartement so I won't rent... what do you think
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If he's anything like me, then I think he just prefers to handle his shit on his own, rather than dragging anyone he cares about into it along with him. One of the reasons for this is to have one less thing to worry about and to be able to focus on the problems at hand better.
I would like also clarify on the above, that it doesn't mean that his relationship with you is trivial. In fact the opposite is true, he cares and respects you too much to drag you into a possible shit storm, that may or may not be resolved in the end.
It might sound odd, but some prefer to handle their problems on their own, for a number of reasons.
From the looks of it, he may have reached a better place in life and would like to include you in it. You could give it another shot.1
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