how do you deal with breakups? I just got dumped today it was a four year realtionship and I'm obviously hurt. this was my first serouis realtionship as well as first real love. what can I do to keep my mind going. I'm trying to sleep but I just started crying. I've been crying a day now.
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First of all I'm sorry you're going through this hard time in your life and I know and hope you will feel better soon. Think of it as a blessing you wouldn't want to waste any more years on him if he stayed with you and was unhappy. Think of it as a lesson. A lesson how to improve future relationships and what you want in one. Think of it as a blessing. You spent 4 years with someone and had company for the laughs and tears and life events and you didn't have to spend those alone so even though you won't share more memories with him you can appreciate the ones you did. And move on to sharing memories with someone new2