Curious about ex when you have a girlfriend?

Ex and I broke up 4 years ago. We were together 6+ years. After he left me I cut all contact (social media included). Recently I ran into him at a mutal friend's event. Its been years since we'd seen each other or spoken. The next day I got a friend request...

I still have feelings for him so it baffles me why he would want to reconnect after so long? For me it is easier not knowing about his life and ignoring what happened rather than constantly being reminded of his existence on social media. He has a girlfriend of 3 years and surely she would not be ok with it either. So my question is why?
Curious about ex when you have a girlfriend?
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