How'd he just cut me off Like that?
What Guys Said 3
This is very difficult to determine.
The situation is extremely tricky. The fact that he hesitated to call you his girlfriend loud and clear is the worst part of the scenario that somehow justifies that he was unsure about his feelings and the final decision he wanted to make. You mentioned; both of you were pretty open about your past relationship issues. So that indicates; there has been issues in his relationship as well very clearly. So connecting these spots can possibly prove that he suffered from certain issues in his past relationships that made him unstable regarding his decisions and emotions toward you. I can guess that he really did liked you, he tried to make it work, he wanted to overcome his issues but apparently he was constantly in doubt and finally he could't take it. That's just one theory according to the available evidence and possible connections.
Furthermore, maybe his issues and this line of behavior would be related to his family. You mentioned you never met them and he was more on your side, he is the one who traveled there with you, he is the one who's been around your side of family the most. And not vise versa. So maybe there was something wrong related to his family who made him to back off. Anything is possible.
Moreover, there is also a possibility that he did not moved away. Maybe something happened and he is struggling with a certain issue and trying to overcome it. This is why it's so hard to determine the situation. Because anything can be possible. But of course you don't deserve to go through this whatsoever anyway.
Additionally, this was your very right to become mad when he couldn't even introduce you and recognize you as his girlfriend after spending an accountable time together. So whatever the case is, this was his issue and a wrong move that he have made. So he should've apologized and address the case. However, hopefully everything ends up more positively. But i would suggest that you don't spend your emotions through an unknown. Continue living your life happily and try to move on from this.
His lost his lost
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