I love my boyfriend so much he is my best friend. We have been together for a while he won't have sex with me and he is already talking about marriage and kids. I would love to have all of this but I'm to young to think about it. He is an awesome friend and an amazing boyfriend but I feel like I should break up with him because I feel like I'm going to hurt him and I want to have sex and fool around without hurting him. I haven't done anything to hurt him yet but when I'm around these guys I want to have sex with them and just fool around. I don't know what to do I love my boyfriend and I don't want to hurt him but I want to have fun. I'm to young to know what I want. Please help me.
Most Helpful Guy
Why do you want to go with these other people? Your young, so what? The fact is many women think like this, they end up breaking up with a good man and then have their "fun". Their fun ends up being more drama, sleeping around with guys who don't care about them, being with the bad boys who cheat on them and then they are all used up and they realize no one wants them now that they have gotten older and they through away the one person who was, in their words, their "soul mate". Think long and hard about this. The grass is always greener on the other side, until you get their and realize just how bad it is and how much better you had it where you where. What is the appeal to this desire to have sex with other people? Why do you want that? Is it because its what you truly want or is it because you think that's what your suppose to want?
Most Helpful Girl
So you're at that phase where you care to sleep around for the trill and don't wish to be attached. But at the same time you've been blessed with this awesome guy who's values are aligned and is an amazing boyfriend.
This phase that you're in, dose sex really overpower a stable loving relationship? - Truly think about your relationship then the reason as to why you feel "young and just wish to habe fun". Then when all your thoughts are collected, sit and discuss with your boyfriend the feelings you're having, see if him and yourself are able to compromise something to keep the relationship. Don't go doing something behind his back just to "relieve" yourself of your needs, withstand the urge of sex until you resolve this situation with your boyfriend.1