I never been in a relationship as I get rejected 100% of the time and I know the reasons why and it's reasons I can't control.
So... since you know the reasons... why do you need every girl to tell you what you already know?Either work on those reasons, or, if you can't control them, work on your confidence.Also - being in a relationship is only a small fraction of being a full human being is...Work on other aspects of your life...I mean... you probably should've figured this out by now...
I take care of myself and I'm independent. However, I all I know is hate and my life feels empty without ever being loved.
@asker what are your reasons then?
@jumpingbeans Because of my disability and my psychical appearance. I'm not picky as I have even tried to get overweight women.
what is your disability?
They turn crazy because you didn't give them an explanation. You left them wracking their brain trying understand what they did wrong or what happened when you could have some empathy and courage to just be honest. Not that some won't still be obsessive but leaving someone you cared about questioning their worth as a person and the feelings you once shared is a cruel thing to do.
@SanHoloz - You call it cruel - the rest call it wise. Nobody OWES you jackshit. "They turn crazy..." What a load of crap. Nobody 'turns crazy' - they either are or they're not. Women have a tendency to go off half-cocked. It's best just to leave them be or suffer their wrath.
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You don't have a physical body. So I would not define you as a real person
Interesting double standard. Must give a reason for break up but not on asking someone out.
Uhm because a relationship takes investment. you cannot compare being rejecting for a first date vs being dumped after a 1 year long relationship. That is 2 very very different things. It is not a double standard at all. You are comparing 2 entirely separate social constructs.
But how is someone supposed to "grow" and "change" from being rejected from a 1st date then?
Asker: You're talking about first dates, but the question asked is about relationships... There is a stark contrast between being turned down on a first date, and having a relationship break up.Perhaps update your question to clarify what it is you're actually asking.
Million times yes!
Such bs to say. I know what you mean but that "fire" is Disney /Hollywood BS. No, there won't be a perfect prince that's waiting for you to find him. That "fire" won't be alive during marriage either since you would be with that person 24/7. Our generation is truly fucked. Divorce became normal because there is no "fire" lmfao
I disagree. You don't have to spill every detail but if you dump your partner when they haven't done anything like cheat then you should tell them why. Lying makes it harder for them to move on and doing so is cowardly. If you don't want to be with them anymore you can say that, even if the reason is you found someone else, you are still being honest by saying that you don't think that this relationship is something that you want. If you try to pull the usual excuses then you adding more people to these message boards asking strangers why they were left high and dry with no reason. You are letting them go so you owe to them to really let them go.