Most Helpful Girl
Well it all depends on the girl tbh. In my opinion, physical affection is suuuuper important for a successful relationship. There has to at least be some level of that.
Most Helpful Guy
Seems like your relationship is based on materialism, what you have, what you want from your partner, etc. Most relationships should be based on mutual interests, to people find each other attractive, like each others company, and find sex enjoyable between each other. If your in a relationship with a woman who refuses or shows know interest in you or sex then its obvious its something else that's attracting her to you.