Why'd my feelings get so strong?

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Why'd my feelings get so strong?

Panda1911

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We were friends and all but we both liked each other. Then my stupid ass feelings got in the way because I was (am) so close to actually loving him and I decided I should distance myself and he reluctantly agreed and now I'm hurt but I don't know why, and I don't know what to do 😭

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chris2js
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Panda calm down I'm sure he's making a big mistake 🙌

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Is this still revelant?
- Panda1911
  
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  It's my bad here. I don't know I'm just... anxiety
- chris2js
  
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  Then u need to take a deep breath before something bad happens
- Panda1911
  
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  I think I already went into my other mood... I'll be fine I think... i go through like this huge wave of anxiety then like sadness then just total numbness. Sometimes it takes a while, sometimes it takes minutes
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- chris2js
  
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  Well feel free to message me if u want I'm pretty bored 🙃😅
- Panda1911
  
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  My Xper thing is too low anyways
- chris2js
  
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  Oh well I can't message u either unless u are following me 😅
- Panda1911
  
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  Welp

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SuccessfulHornDog | 183 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.
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Damn emotions

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- Panda1911
  
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  @SuccessfulHornDog Im literally tryin not to cry rn. Like I don't know... i guess shit went down and i felt so numb for a while and then like this crap happens
- SuccessfulHornDog
  
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  Were meant to fall in love with each other. Its normal. All this crap over friends with benefits is idiotic. Sorry if it isn't what you want. We've all felt hurt by rejection
- Panda1911
  
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  Oh no no. We didn't have the whole benefits part. We just knew we liked each other but like i guess his type of liking was waaaayyy more casual
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- SuccessfulHornDog
  
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  Sorry girl. We've all been there

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Canuck37 Xper 5 · Accepted Answer

Why did you decide to distance yourself? Why not just convert it to a relationship?

The very best relationships are the ones in which you go from being best friends to being a dating couple.

Granted, you're 16, and 16 is usually too young to date seriously, and you should only date best friends if you're completely serious about it. I don't mean that in a derogatory manner towards you, it's just that the absolute earliest I've ever seen a couple start a relationship that led to marriage is 17; and I've seen many couples. Students don't reach their adult form until 20-21, and many dramatic personality changes can happen between 16 and 21.

But the big story I'm getting here is that you probably should've dated him, provided that you're willing to date anyone at your age. Go find him and rebuild that friendship.

Why'd my feelings get so strong?

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