Most Helpful Guy
All the time. Especially today because today is her burthday. I think of how our lives have changed and how my life might have been better if I stayed with her. Mostly, I remember how much fun we had in bed and, knowing her sexual personality, I combine that with my fetish and have happy fun masturbation time.
Most Helpful Girl
I am about 6 months post breakup and my ex still crosses my mind at very random times or like now, when we have been texting but it comes and goes and thankfully doesn't linger as it used at the early breakup stages. I try to allow myself to feel what I feel but then get over it. A good strategy is to only tell yourself you are allowed to think of your ex at a set time. When you start to think of your ex mentally tell yourself to park the thought and return to it later at the dedicated time. This is a good strategy for chronic worriers or people who have anxious thoughts.