I fell in love with a guy that was from my work but he said we can be just friends. I didn't want to lose this feeling I have cause its not everyday we fall in love right? But how can I get over it? I still look foward to see him at work, just to look at his wonderfull looks and have some nice conversation with him.
Most Helpful Guy
It can be hard but the best thing to do is try to move on. Obviously if you work with him then it's more difficult to cut him out of your life... but as someone with experience in this area, you'll just be stranded in a sea of hope and life will pass you by. It's hard but acceptance that you can't be with him is the first step. After that, it gets easier0
Most Helpful Girl
For me, all crushes eventually fade. Even the ones where in the moment I think "I'll never get over this" - I always do. But consciously trying to forget those feelings.
But maybe it was easier for me because I wasn't rejected. I decided these people who I liked weren't good for me due their maturity or the people they hanged around with so I justified not thinking about them by focusing on their negative attributes. That helps a whole lot.1