We have been separated under the same roof for some time until I can find my own place which you can do in my province. You have to not wear your wedding bands, no sex, share gifts, eat and sleep separate, no social activities together, no doing each other's laundry. I've adhered to all of the above. In a couple of days I will be seeing legal advice. He has shown no interest in being intimate up until now. Why does he want sex all of a sudden? And how do I tell him NO which I have, but he still doesn't get it? So frustrated.