Ok so I am 17 and have been seeing a guy for about 8 months and everything was going great
Until about three weeks ago he tried to have sex
I asked him if he could wait because I wasn't ready
He said Okay. Sure. Take your time
I was glad he wasn't mad or anything but about a little over a week later I got a text saying he was cheating
I very calmly asked if it was true
He said "no I personally wouldn't. But you are the type of girl to be cheated on All girls especially pretty girls like you are meant to be fucked and or dumped Us guys only love and care for the ugly and dumb girls. They're easier to handle. Besides most girls aren't supposed to be loved by men. Women were Made For men. For our happiness and use. And you should have sex. If not you're just a useless woman "
I was pissed. He had no respect and I dumped him on the spot
But I can't get over his words. Is that true
Is that woman are for
Will no man ever love me?
Most Helpful Guy
Wolves don't loose sleep over the opinions of sheep.
So why should you worry about "his words"? He's a dumb ass lol
And NO, thats not what women are for, women are people... not an object he could buy to fuck, cook, and clean his shit. He sounds like a pretentious, ignorant, insufferable bastard.
Don't sweat it, that guy... sorry little kid, is stupid, really morally jaded, and probably just butt hurt that he hasn't gotten it in. You don't have do do anything for anyone or make anyone happy... its YOUR life do whats right for YOU and what you feel makes you happy. You said your 17 so your probably still in high school and most guys, at least I was, in high school are so eager to experiment at that age, 8 months feels like forever. He probably got bored of waiting, which means unfortunately he was only interested in you for your appearance not your personality. It sucks now but thats good for you, saves you time that could have been spent had you never found out.(trust me I know a kid thats been with this girl 3 years now, cheated on him countless times... and he's still with her) you only lost 8 months..
Forget the conversation and the kid, move on and stand your ground. Don't let some immature little shit make you second guess who you are and be thankful that now you know what type of person he is (like morals and family values) imagine him telling your future daughter that or teaching your future son to treat girls like that.
P. S. Don't be so quick to trust people, but rather try to see who they really are and their character. And stay away from that kid and probably his friends too, they're probably just as unchivalrous and ignorant as him.
P. S. S. Yes, you'll find love lol he just said that because he's not a real man. And also why do you care? enjoy your life and your personal time while your still young. At the right moment in time, when your ready, the right guy will find you. but for now don't pay mind too that. focus on more important shit like school, meeting people, making friends, travel, and most important making money. GL2
Most Helpful Girl
No. He's a fucking asshole.
Your duty is never to "put out". If you aren't ready, you aren't. Period.
He's young and entitled, thinks the world owes him something.
Good on you for respecting yourself.
You'll find someone who cares about you and doesn't leave the second you won't do him. Good guys are out there.0