Ok so I am 17 and have been seeing a guy for about 8 months and everything was going great
Until about three weeks ago he tried to have sex
I asked him if he could wait because I wasn't ready
He said Okay. Sure. Take your time
I was glad he wasn't mad or anything but about a little over a week later I got a text saying he was cheating
I very calmly asked if it was true
He said "no I personally wouldn't. But you are the type of girl to be cheated on All girls especially pretty girls like you are meant to be fucked and or dumped Us guys only love and care for the ugly and dumb girls. They're easier to handle. Besides most girls aren't supposed to be loved by men. Women were Made For men. For our happiness and use. And you should have sex. If not you're just a useless woman "
I was pissed. He had no respect and I dumped him on the spot
But I can't get over his words. Is that true
Is that woman are for
Will no man ever love me?
Most Helpful Guy
Woah woah take a huge step back, don't listen to this kid, he's trying to manipulate you. Ok #1 DROP HIS ASS, he's not worth your time sweetheart, he will USE you, it's quite clear what his intentions are. Don't listen to this jackoff, you will find a guy who actually loves you!!
About the sex part, I must say for most guys it is a must, now seeing as you're only 17 it doesn't have to be a MUST, you're still young and you still have a lot to experience. If you want to have sex with a guy that is committed to you and actually cares about you then WAIT, don't listen to this guy, he's really manipulating you, and I know this because I use to do it to girls when I was younger. Anyways yeah drop him he's no good and obviously doesn't care about you. Hope this helps if you need any more advice just reply :)1
Most Helpful Girl
No. He's a fucking asshole.
Your duty is never to "put out". If you aren't ready, you aren't. Period.
He's young and entitled, thinks the world owes him something.
Good on you for respecting yourself.
You'll find someone who cares about you and doesn't leave the second you won't do him. Good guys are out there.0