Most Helpful Girl
Yes, because you are a complete scum bag. And that's me putting it nicely.3
Most Helpful Guy
You just answered your question, goat. If you and lover are great, leave your wife. Up to you.1
Why not you couldn't possibly be more of a scumbag
You've been cheating on her for 5 years, the least you can do is leave her so she can find someone worth being with you fucking arsehole.
Things always seem greener on the other side of the fence, sometimes the heart always misleads and you end up regretting past actions. Make sure you put a lot of thinking into your decisions and fully understand what you are doing and why you want to do it. If you have come to the conclusion that you really think that this is the best option then go for it. Just make sure you've explored every path that you can take because this path that you want to take seems to be very risky.
If you don't think there's any way of salvaging your relationship with your wife, it's probably best to end it. You wouldn't be with someone else if you loved your wife
Leave your wife since she clearly deserves better than you.