My ex and I had a fight yesterday and broke up. He deleted me off everything immediately; Instagram, Facebook and even went as petty as Snapchat! I noticed with his other exes even if they didn't end on great terms he didn't delete them and still likes their pics on Instagram sometimes. Does this mean he literally hates me? I can understand unfollowing on Instagram because you don't want to be reminded of them but snapchat really? You can literally avoid their stories you don't have to delete them. I was hoping to be civil with him after the breakup but apparently not.
Most Helpful Guy
It could he that he hates you. It could also be that he still has feelings for you and hates the fact that your relationship didn't work so he is attempting to delete you from his life so he can get over you and move on5
Most Helpful Girl
Your ex probably deleted you because it's the easiest way for him to move on. No distractions.
As for why he hasn't deleted his previous exes, I don't know. Maybe he has now learned from the past that it's easier to move on if there are no reminders on social media. Or maybe he didn't care as much about his other exes and found it easier to move on - thus not needing to delete them.
I think it's better for things to end cold turkey like this. There's no room for lingering feelings or distractions. Even if you can avoid each other on snapchat, it's better to close the door entirely. Plus, even just seeing your ex's username works as a reminder. Better to be consistent across all platforms.3