I cheated on my husband with my sister in-law boy friend and made it seem like it was all his fault... Now everybody thinks he molested me... What can I do to get rid of this self hatred feeling?
I cheated on my husband?
What Guys Said 16
Duh... Tell the truth. It's good that you hate yourself for this. You should. But you shouldn't have to live with this self hatred forever. Tell the truth, face the consequences, and move on.1
I have built a guillotine in my home and looking for a head for the first trial. Will you pleeeeeeaaaaase volunteer? It will help you to get rid of those harsh self-loathing feelings.0
Just come clean. But say that it's not an excuse, but it's the truth. Don't deny anything. You can't have people thinking he molested you.1
tell everyone the truth2
the truth shall set you free1
Wow, that sounds quite messed up. So it seems like the boyfriend of your sister-in-law has molested you? Did your husband say anything about that?0
You should hate your self for doing that.1
You are scum.0
You can only tell people that there was a misunderstanding and he didn't molest you.0
tell ur husband u feel guilty0
Tell the truth0
Go watch some porn and jerk off the feelings 😂😂😂😂1
Nothing you did the deed now deal with it0
Confess. What you did is a crime. That's some guys life you are completely destroying. You can't do that. Confess before it's too late.1
What Girls Said 12
Come clean about what actually happened and deal with the repercussions.
You chose this.3
Tell the truth. Infidelity is wrong and deceitful, but It's more immoral and disgusting letting a guy take full responsibility by allowing him to be accused of molesting you. Take responsibility of your wrong choices instead of being a coward and weak.
Tell the truth -that it was mutual consent
Your moral compass is questionable0
This is why a lot of amazing men choose to stay celibate. Cause of whores like you. You made holy vows to your husband in the eyes of God and purposely cheated. Then made it seem like the other man (just go ahead and don't sugarcoat it) raped you. You said molested but just admit you told everyone he RAPED YOU. trying to make yourself look better by sugarcoating the word rape.2
By telling the truth.0
You are actual trash.2
I’m going to say this i really don’t care if this mean or not you need to tell the truth just because you where a unfaithful slut doesn’t mean that you make it seem like it was someone else’s fault you dropped your panties it’s you fault you did not seem to regret it them now you wanna regret you better pussy up for the shit you did unfaithful girl is the reason why people think us girl can’t do shit reason why buy think where an object2
You are so fucking wrong!1
Tell the truth.0
Come out and tell the truth or you will die feeling this way. The feeling you are feeling will never go away0
Tell the truth you dirty hoe1
you should tell the truth0
My mom is the same way, flirting with a man. but it's my dad's fault my mom cheated. He doesn't know how to keep his stupid mouth shut and now Look at him. He wonders why she did what she did, he knows my mom is mentally ill. He actually encourages this bullshit.
And that's why I probably won't feel too bad if she decides to go and see this man and does the next thing0
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