My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8months and he has been taking really good care of me.. but he hates my smoking habits, he asked me to stop and i tried but it lasted for a month or less... i have been smoking behind his back and he caught me red handed last night.. I tried to call him (11 times) he didn't pick up.. he even blocked my number.. i went to his place bagged him for more than 2hour but he pushed me away and told me his done being a fool. he even locked me out. Another problem is we work at the same hotel and I will probably see him.. how do I act normal?
Most Helpful Guy
What he wants you to do is for your own good before his but the way he acted isn't good I mean he was kinda rude. Habits like smoking are very difficult to remove and they need some time and good care (therapy if necessary). Just tell him that this kinda habits are difficult to remove and You need help and patience and maybe as I said some medical care. And try to put more serious efforts about this please.1
Most Helpful Girl
You’ve broken his trust, this is obviously an important issue to him and instead of asking for support and help you went behind his back.
If it’s not something you’re willing to do then you’re most likely incompatible as a couple and should look for others better suited.
It’ll be awkward for awhile but if you’re courteous and polite it settles3