Most Helpful Guy
I think you know the answer. You have tried to make it work. It won't work. No amount of trying and working through it will make any difference. It will never change YOUR feelings. Forget, mostly, the needs of your husband. We are talking about the rest of your life, and what YOU need.
If you don't love hm now, you never will. Leave now, give yourself some "me" time. Then when you are ready, rejoin the dating scene. Find yourself a guy you can love, and who loves you in return.
Most Helpful Girl
Its not fear to him or you to live in a lie, make up your mind, future is scary but not obligatory bad