I have been married for two years. We were in a relationship before that for almost 8 years. Anyway, I started liking a guy and told my husband ( then my boyfriend ) that I liked someone else and didn't want to be with him. However I broke up with that other guy and I am totally over him. After my breakup my husband came back to my life and I accepted him out of inertia and fear of future. I got married to him but I can hardly call it a marriage. I don't love him at all. I dread the thoughts of getting intimate with him and I somehow close my eyes and get through the act. I told him recently that I wanted out but he insists on working it out. I am so confused and anxious. I fear an uncertain future but the thought of living like this is blood curdling. Advise please
Most Helpful Guy
I think you know the answer. You have tried to make it work. It won't work. No amount of trying and working through it will make any difference. It will never change YOUR feelings. Forget, mostly, the needs of your husband. We are talking about the rest of your life, and what YOU need.
If you don't love hm now, you never will. Leave now, give yourself some "me" time. Then when you are ready, rejoin the dating scene. Find yourself a guy you can love, and who loves you in return.2
Most Helpful Girl
Its not fear to him or you to live in a lie, make up your mind, future is scary but not obligatory bad2