Most Helpful Guy
The fact that you're on here soliciting advice from total strangers about your marriage means your marriage won't last much longer. That's probably for the best. Best to start over rather than wake up 1 day 15 years down the road and find out you've wasted your prime years. I waited 24 years for my childhood love and I to reconnect (I'm 40), and had zero interest in women in between. Just start over... life's not perfect. Better to do it now, because what you have isn't a marriage. Not a successful one anyway.
Most Helpful Girl
Well I don't think he's husband material, I'd start making actual moves to make him see life without you if he acts better cool if not I'll call it quits. Life is too short to be miserable with someone