I'm not happy with her and I I was stupid to just jump into a relationship with her without thinking it trough. She's definitely not for me, and I'm not for her. I've been trying to end the relationship for months, but I just can't get myself to do it. I don't want to hurt her and I just end up procrastinating and elonging the break up. She's still very much into me and I feel bad about it. Is there any way I could get her to the same page with me? So that she'd want to end it too!
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should just be honest, if she's as into you as you say she will be upset and hurt regardless, there's no way to sugar coat it. It's better to be open and honest in these kind of situations, dealing with it in a dignified way shows that you respect her as a person. Procrastinating and dragging it out could be seen as you being cruel and thoughtless even if it is unintentional. I've been in there myself and from experience I would rather of been told the truth than made to feel worthless and disrespected.2
Most Helpful Guy
Just spit it out (in front of her) Okay,
It will hurt her the movement but in the end of the day its good for both of you and one day She will respect you for this.1