We fell in love, and we were together almost 2 years, and to make a long story short, we had a nasty break-up. I broke up with her initially because I was unhappy and we decided to work on ourselves, but she screwed up during that time which made things worse (flirting with this guy, I found pictures of this guy on her email without his shirt on, etc.) yeah I shouldn't have been on her email, but she shouldn't have been sneaking around my back. Anyways, its been almost 2 months since we broke up, and she's been talking and hanging out with this guy ever since the time we were supposed to be working on things (one of her screw ups). And the last time we talked was 5 days ago, because I'm giving her space. So my question is, why is she hanging out with this guy? Do you think it might be a rebound to help her get over me? Girls, would you be thinking about your ex and comparing the new guy with your ex? I'm just leaving her alone in hopes that she will come to her senses, but I don't know. Because even though we had our hard times, I gave her all of my love. And I hope she realizes it.
Would you be thinking about your ex and comparing the new guy with your ex? How can she do this so soon?
What Girls Said 1
Sometimes, well a lot of times, girls really like attention. Sometimes they like to get attention from guys even if they don't exactly want to be in a relationship with them.
Hopefully, she is just upset about the break up and needed a shoulder to cry on.. and flirting just happened. I doubt it's anything too serious, after all it is very soon after the break-up.
Unless she was talking to this guy before you broke up, perhaps being the cause of some problems, then I don't think you have anything to worry about.0
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