OK hear me out before you start complaining.
we all have high sex drives from time to time in our system, we need it we crave it. its a biological instinct.
every now and then a man or woman cheats in their relationship or marriage, not because they want to but because they need to. when it comes to a relationship not all the time the other person wants sex, that's because they believe they want something more in the relationship, love, emotional closeness which is great but sex is also healthy in a relationship.
if that's out of your system or their system for awhile then a relationship can proceed. when a partner cheats its not because your not enough for them or they want all these different people, its the supercharged sex drive that makes them crave it.
then when they are home with you that part is gone for awhile and you can remain to have a loving relationship.
no-one needs to know of the cheating as long as your very discreet about it.
i know most of you are going to think I'm a dumb ass for saying all this but its just a thought i was having.
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This would be true in a world in which people didn't get jealous and felt it was OK to share their partners. Some people may be this way, and if you find a girlfriend who is like that, you can arrange to have an open relationship in which it's OK for the both of you to sleep with other people. There are quite a few people who choose to do this.
However, for most people it really hurts to know that their partner is not the only one. It makes them insecure and jealous, and it can ruin the relationship.
When you say "no one needs to know of the cheating", do you mean no one including your girlfriend? I think deliberately withholding this kind of information is as bad as lying, and having your trust betrayed is extremely painful. Even if she would have been OK with the cheating, the lying might very well make her decide to break up with you.2